If your kid is awesome at mathematics, please don't read this post.
If you're not interested in my rants, please don't read this post.
If you're a cry baby and take things too personal, please don't read this post.
If you're a believer in the victim mentality, please don't read this post.
Warnings done... proceed at your own risk.
Let's stop blaming the schools. Let's
stop blaming the teachers. Let's stop blaming the genetics. Your
kids suck at math because you do. This is true whether your kids are
in public school, private school, or homeschool.
You suck at math because your parents
sucked at math. Your kids suck at math because you suck at math.
"I can do math in my head, I know
math" No you don't. You know how to drive a car, but that
doesn't mean you know how it actually works ... and you need to know
how it actually works to teach how to build a car.... and make no
mistake, the fundamentals of math are all building block items.
Multiplications, Fractions, Subtraction, Probability, etc.
"You don't need to teach them
math, they will figure out what they need as they go." WHAT!?!
Wow. How far does this line of reasoning go with you and into what
areas of life? Or is this a selective thing only applying to math?
Well, your kids, your choice. I, on the other hand, will most
definitely ensure my children understand mathematics before they find
they need it (such as with predatory credit card terms, mortgages,
insurance rates, etc.)
So, who will break the cycle? You?
Your Kids? Or will you continue to allow it plague your family
lineage and build in an excuse system?
I was horrible in math in elementary
school. The pain! The Pain! (I can hear Paul Mordeeb in Dune screaming in the pain amplifier!)
Memorize this, Memorize that, go faster, wtf is this? Crazy madness. It all made no sense because those who taught it didn't understand it. But wait, that's the teacher, right? Yeah, but parents are the first teachers. Teaching math is a natural part of raising a kid. Basic math is infused in all aspects of our society. I bet you don't understand it so you can't infuse it into a family discussion. I truly understand math. In fact, I can teach mathematics through set theory and numerical analysis (300 and 400 level college), and I know I can step into a college and pass a class in combinatronics.
Memorize this, Memorize that, go faster, wtf is this? Crazy madness. It all made no sense because those who taught it didn't understand it. But wait, that's the teacher, right? Yeah, but parents are the first teachers. Teaching math is a natural part of raising a kid. Basic math is infused in all aspects of our society. I bet you don't understand it so you can't infuse it into a family discussion. I truly understand math. In fact, I can teach mathematics through set theory and numerical analysis (300 and 400 level college), and I know I can step into a college and pass a class in combinatronics.
Am I saying that my kids will be doing
this level of mathematics before they leave home high school?
Extremely doubtful. Unless one of my girls is very clear that she
wants to go deep into some computationally intensive science, our
math education will barely, if at all, touch trigonometry or
calculus.
What is key is to really understand the
fundamentals of computational mathematics and how it works. If your
kid knows 6 times 7 of the top of their heads, that's fantastic. But
does your kid really know what 6 x 7 means? Can they explain it, can
they show it, can they swap in a something other than a 6 and still
lay out what is going on? Can they substitute an apple for the six
and still get it? Can they add the apple as the unit and get it? Can
the explain what the units are implied or not by 6 x 7? Do they
understand the place holders that the 6 and 7 represent? Do they
really understand that we are simply speaking out, in a short phrase,
"six times of a 7"? Do they know that 6 times 7 will never
be presented to them that directly in the world? Can they transfer
from a real life situation into the 6 x 7 memorized fact? Do they
know the answer to 6 apples times 7 oranges? Do you? It isn't a
trick question, if you understand mathematics.
If you don't really understand math, go
back and study it. I did. As silly as this may sound to you, when I
was 20 years old I decided I had to really learn math. So, while I
was stationed in Korea, I plopped my ass down in the post library
almost every day for six months and started to learn. I started with
basic counting. Literally doing 1 plus 1. What was 1 plus 1 really?
How does it work? What do these things mean? 1 what? Etc. Etc. I
did this for about 6 months, getting into geometry. I now really
know math and can transfer that into my children, making it a part of
our daily lives. It isn't some vague concept or algorithm sequence
to memorize. I can explain and show why, and I can infuse logical
thinking steps into our daily lives to help my kids grow and explore
through mathematics in real terms. I can have discussions around
Miles Per Hour and help them discover how that is a fraction with
units and translate that further into distance covered over some
period of time. I sure wish I had this comprehension before entering
the adult world.... I would undoubtedly have made better financial
choices as a young man.
As a nation, we approach mathematics
education wrong, and we seem to be suck in this vortex of wrongness.
We can either let it perpetuate or fix it. I'm fixing it, what about
you?
So, fellow educator, take
accountability. Own it. Go back, and really think through
mathematics at the basic level. Do it to gift your family tree, as I
have.